This is the thought to improve your writing skills. So if you want to write stories and stuff, here some advice. Begin by this idea that you think you will write what you need to write, then state written. Do this before you start writing in the day. Also, watch the punctuation. Avoid starting sentences with a propositional clause, like "and, but, or, in, at, by" and that is what is important. So mainly this is where you will have it written, that is before you start writing it.
Generally good punctuation starts by a , after a complete thought. A . after the thought or sentence is done by feel. Also, use transitions like "also, then, that, this", think to capitalize each sentence. When writing a book or a paragraph that is part of something other than a book. This makes it look professional. Also avoid running two thoughts together. That's easily separated by a , and otherwise called a run on sentence.
So take a look at this sentence, that sentence is better formed. This is two different thoughts and that is what I call somewhat better. That last sentence could be..That is what I call somewhat better, this last sentence was a run on sentence. Ah one thing, write as if in the present tense or present moment. You already know about proper nouns. Those nouns you capitalize as they name some idea directly. Always remember, try to make sense in a sentence. That's about all. Now you can write up a storm.
Here's a sample paragraph:
This is the point in idea, though you may get better results. The results don't last. So try as you might. Do as you can. This includes the usage of liquid vitamins and minerals supplements. That always works, if you get enough of the stuff. You can get this liquid vitamin and minerals supplement separately or already together. This is either from amazon.com or Ebay.com, here for liquid supplements or here for non liquid supplements.
Tuesday, December 18, 2018
Sunday, December 16, 2018
Tumbling stone email December 2018
This came from a Tumbling stone email by healing crystals.
Crystals for Balance During the Holiday Season
by Kathleen Johnson from UniverSOUL Heart
Although we know that maintaining balance in our lives is a key to wellness, it is often a challenge to do so. Life on Earth can be demanding, stressful, and even chaotic at times, which makes it harder to achieve, let alone maintain, a state of balance. This is especially true during the holiday season. As we rush around in our daily lives, juggling responsibilities of home, work, family, and friends, the added pressure of the holiday season is a recipe for imbalance and overload. So, this holiday season, allow some crystal therapy into your lives, and mindfully work with their energy to keep yours in balance.
Some of my top choices for balance and stress relief are:
Black Tourmaline is a stone that everyone needs! You may know it as a great grounding stone, but it also cleanses the energy field, and helps to dispel negativity in the form of worry, fear, judgment, and other toxic emotions. Black Tourmaline purifies and protects, so you can feel grounded and stable through the holiday rush. Keep a piece in a pocket, and place some over the exterior doors in your home.
Blue Kyanite is a wonderful choice for finding and maintaining balance. All Kyanites gently and thoroughly align and balance the 7 primary chakras. They calm and release stuck energy manifesting as emotions. Blue Kyanite has the added benefits of dissolving unhealthy emotional patterns, as well as enhancing communication with others. Placing a piece of Blue Kyanite on the 3rd eye can create a calm serene state in a matter of minutes when you’re feeling overwhelmed by your to-do list.
Green Aventurine is a heart chakra stone, and carries a lovely energy that instantly lifts the spirits and supports a feeling of well-being. It is also a wonderful balancing crystal, and inspires optimism during challenging times and situations. With its happy loving energy, Green Aventurine supports graceful movement through the holiday season. And, because it also harmonizes interactions with others, it is a wonderful choice for holiday gatherings and social events. Wearing a green aventurine necklace or pendant keeps it close to the heart.
Lepidolite is quickly becoming one of my go-to crystals, especially for stressful times when balance is needed. It harmonizes with all the chakras, but works especially well with the heart and 3rd eye. Its energy soothes frazzled nerves and dissipates stress and worry. Lepidolite calms anxiety and encourages restful sleep. It gently moves us into a receptive state for balance and emotional healing. Its energy is serene, soothing, and helps us appreciate the lessons in challenges. Carry Lepidolite in a pocket for a calm balancing influence and place it under your pillow for relief from insomnia related to holiday stress.
Red Jasper is the “Supreme Nurturer”. Offering stability and emotional balance, Red Jasper works slowly but steadily. Keeping Red Jasper in your environment promotes a grounded outlook, a deeper connection to Mother Earth, and an ability to recognize the source of chaos in our lives, thus providing the opportunity to restore order. Red Jasper has a very practical and earthy vibration that feels comforting and familiar. It also restores strength and vitality depleted by stress or illness. Red Jasper calms and balances the emotions when used as a worry stone.
Rose Quartz is a universally beloved stone. The gentle, nurturing energy of this delicate pink crystal is pure love – unconditional and for all. Its soothing vibrations are calming as they release tension and restore balance to the emotions and the entire energetic body. Rose Quartz is the quintessential heart chakra stone. Even so, it stimulates all the chakras, harmonizing and uniting them with heart energy. Wear Rose Quartz in a necklace or pendant, and allow its loving energy to calm and smooth any emotional rough edges.
Of course, this is by no means a comprehensive list. Fortunately, Mother Earth has blessed us with many crystals that restore balance, reduce stress, and support wellbeing. Some additional suggestions are Amethyst, Blue Chalcedony, Blue Lace Agate, Celestite, Moonstone, Tiger’s Eye, and Unakite Jasper.
Finally, as always, allow your intuition to guide you to those that work best with you. Mother Earth has you covered, so welcome some crystal therapy into the holiday season, and Sparkle on!
Source: The Pocket Book of Stones: Who They Are and What They Teach, by Robert Simmons (2015)
A Little Yuletide Crystal Magic
by Krista Mitchell from KristaMitchell.com
We're moving into a potent phase of intention setting and manifestation magic from the 25th to the 6th (the original 12 days of Yuletide or Christmas), when our thoughts and hopes will look to a fresh start at the new year.
YULETIDE BLESSINGS & SEASON'S GREETINGS!
We've made it through the darkest time, and longest night, of the year.
Slowly but surely the sun will begin to wax, and while they still feel far away, the warm days will come again.
We're moving into a potent phase of intention setting and manifestation magic from the 25th to the 6th (the original 12 days of Yuletide or Christmas), when our thoughts and hopes will look to a fresh start at the new year.
According to the ancient Celtic and Druidic calendars, the month of Birch begins today. The birch tree symbolizes new beginnings, rebirth, and resurrection. In the runic language of the old Norse, it symbolizes fertility, healing, prosperity, and the feminine mysteries.
We've made it through the darkest time, and longest night, of the year.
Slowly but surely the sun will begin to wax, and while they still feel far away, the warm days will come again.
We're moving into a potent phase of intention setting and manifestation magic from the 25th to the 6th (the original 12 days of Yuletide or Christmas), when our thoughts and hopes will look to a fresh start at the new year.
According to the ancient Celtic and Druidic calendars, the month of Birch begins today. The birch tree symbolizes new beginnings, rebirth, and resurrection. In the runic language of the old Norse, it symbolizes fertility, healing, prosperity, and the feminine mysteries.
A LITTLE YULETIDE CRYSTAL MAGIC
To consciously welcome in the magic, healing, and blessings this time brings:- Place a candle in your window at twilight, the magical "between and betwixt time" revered by the Druids. (An LED candle is fine, safety first!)
- Using your saliva (or a sacred oil) and your index finger, draw the runic Berkana symbol (meaning "birch", pictured above) on your window.
- Hold a piece of quartz and whisper your desires for healing, renewal, fertility or prosperity into the quartz.
- Leave the quartz beside your candle throughout the night, symbolizing the light of your dreams blazing through the darkness.
- Keep the quartz with you, place it on your altar, or bury it in your garden after the Spring thaw.
WARMEST WISHES,
KRISTA
What is Emotional detachment
This article came from: Oranum.com Blogsite.
Published on December 14, 2018
What is emotional detachment?
written by Oranum Psychic Erzsebet1
Emotional detachment – Does it help us to be freer?
This concept is not understood and is not understood because it is not easy. However, there is more and more talk of emotional detachment because it is fundamental to our mental health and our happiness. So we will go in steps, first define it and then give the points to be able to implement it.
To define detachment, one must first understand what attachment is: “Attachment is an emotional state of dependence on a thing, a situation or a person.”
The behavior of attachment has two basic functions: a biological function, that is to obtain protection to assure the survival, and the other one of more psychological character, the one to acquire security.
What I do want to emphasize is that for Buddhists attachment is an attitude that overestimates the qualities of an object or person and then clings to it. I cling to people, situations or things until I make them necessary for me and so I become dependent on them. As you can see, the concept of attachment here is different, there are many toxic relationships that originate in a bad attachment and an emotional dependence.
So attachment is good or bad? Well, once again, I note that the same thing can be bad and good at the same time. Attachment is necessary to grow, to feel safe, to nourish us emotionally and its function is to be autonomous and independent adults. Therefore, attachment must give way to detachment sooner or later. I can’t depend on my parents all my life to feel safe because I’m likely to lose them on the road. Nothing lasts forever, so if I cling something and lose it, I will suffer.
Emotional detachment – what is detachment?
Misunderstanding may seem pure selfishness, but nothing is further from reality. Practicing detachment does not mean breaking ties with everything that is important to me, it doesn’t even mean to stop having goals or to want things. Rather it means that even if I want something, I don’t need it to live happily.
I do not stop wanting things or people, I just stop clinging to it as if it were the only important thing; meaning to walk looking the way and not the result. The excesses give us chains and they don’t let us be free.
In our personal relationships, detachment is key to our well-being. I can relate to you in a more free way, leaving spaces for individuality. I choose you but I do not need you, I prefer to be with you but I can be without you. I enjoy sharing my time with you, but I don’t live with the fear of losing you. Love ceases to be need, should be just love.
“Detachment is learning to love, to appreciate what we have and to get involved in relationships in a healthier and more balanced way.”
Emotional detachment – How do I put it into practice?
Take care of your PERSONAL column
You are responsible for yourself. Do not pretend to leave in others this responsibility. No one should take care of you, except yourself.
You are the architect of your life and every step you give.
Cultivate your own happiness, feel responsible, mature, become aware of your decisions and consequences, choose for yourself and never let your well-being and your mental health always depend on other people’s hearts.
Take the reins of your life and your personal well-being, because as its name implies, your well-being is personal and non transferable.
Live your present and accept it
He lives here and now. Stop living in the past or in the future because an excess of past is sadness and an excess of future anxiety.
Living and dealing with the present alone is much easier than living thinking about that past that we can no longer fix or that future that is uncontrollable and sometimes uncertain. We can only enjoy what we do, when our body and mind are aligned.
Accept that things are so, not everything is under our control.
Life flows and nothing prevails. Everything is constantly changing and I must learn to accept and stop trying to change everything and control everything
If I live in the present and accept it, without judging it, I will be able to live in peace.
Learn from Change
Nothing lasts and everything moves. The world keeps spinning and the days go by and none is exactly the same. Knowing how to adapt to change is essential for survival, because it is the natural way of things.
Attachment does not help me to move forward in the changes, when everything around me changes, I must also do it, I can not cling to the past, neither to things, nor to people, because I will be anchored, clinging to the pain of loss.
Appreciate what you already have
We must teach our mind to focus more on what it already has than what it lacks, because we do not run the risk of becoming the eternal dissatisfied. Because I’m going to tell you a secret: there will always be something missing.
“If you are not happy with what you have, you will hardly be with what you lack!”
Emotional detachment – exercise
To help you do this, there is an exercise that I often use in therapy, that of acknowledgments: for two weeks, every day before you go to sleep, thank life for three things you have and do not repeat one in those 15 days. You will discover the amount of things you already have and that you never value. Feeling thankful for what I have brings me closer to happiness than feeling just yearning for what I have not yet.
Published on December 14, 2018
What is emotional detachment?
written by Oranum Psychic Erzsebet1
Emotional detachment – Does it help us to be freer?
This concept is not understood and is not understood because it is not easy. However, there is more and more talk of emotional detachment because it is fundamental to our mental health and our happiness. So we will go in steps, first define it and then give the points to be able to implement it.
To define detachment, one must first understand what attachment is: “Attachment is an emotional state of dependence on a thing, a situation or a person.”
The behavior of attachment has two basic functions: a biological function, that is to obtain protection to assure the survival, and the other one of more psychological character, the one to acquire security.
What I do want to emphasize is that for Buddhists attachment is an attitude that overestimates the qualities of an object or person and then clings to it. I cling to people, situations or things until I make them necessary for me and so I become dependent on them. As you can see, the concept of attachment here is different, there are many toxic relationships that originate in a bad attachment and an emotional dependence.
So attachment is good or bad? Well, once again, I note that the same thing can be bad and good at the same time. Attachment is necessary to grow, to feel safe, to nourish us emotionally and its function is to be autonomous and independent adults. Therefore, attachment must give way to detachment sooner or later. I can’t depend on my parents all my life to feel safe because I’m likely to lose them on the road. Nothing lasts forever, so if I cling something and lose it, I will suffer.
Emotional detachment – what is detachment?
Misunderstanding may seem pure selfishness, but nothing is further from reality. Practicing detachment does not mean breaking ties with everything that is important to me, it doesn’t even mean to stop having goals or to want things. Rather it means that even if I want something, I don’t need it to live happily.
I do not stop wanting things or people, I just stop clinging to it as if it were the only important thing; meaning to walk looking the way and not the result. The excesses give us chains and they don’t let us be free.
In our personal relationships, detachment is key to our well-being. I can relate to you in a more free way, leaving spaces for individuality. I choose you but I do not need you, I prefer to be with you but I can be without you. I enjoy sharing my time with you, but I don’t live with the fear of losing you. Love ceases to be need, should be just love.
“Detachment is learning to love, to appreciate what we have and to get involved in relationships in a healthier and more balanced way.”
Emotional detachment – How do I put it into practice?
Take care of your PERSONAL column
You are responsible for yourself. Do not pretend to leave in others this responsibility. No one should take care of you, except yourself.
You are the architect of your life and every step you give.
Cultivate your own happiness, feel responsible, mature, become aware of your decisions and consequences, choose for yourself and never let your well-being and your mental health always depend on other people’s hearts.
Take the reins of your life and your personal well-being, because as its name implies, your well-being is personal and non transferable.
Live your present and accept it
He lives here and now. Stop living in the past or in the future because an excess of past is sadness and an excess of future anxiety.
Living and dealing with the present alone is much easier than living thinking about that past that we can no longer fix or that future that is uncontrollable and sometimes uncertain. We can only enjoy what we do, when our body and mind are aligned.
Accept that things are so, not everything is under our control.
Life flows and nothing prevails. Everything is constantly changing and I must learn to accept and stop trying to change everything and control everything
If I live in the present and accept it, without judging it, I will be able to live in peace.
Learn from Change
Nothing lasts and everything moves. The world keeps spinning and the days go by and none is exactly the same. Knowing how to adapt to change is essential for survival, because it is the natural way of things.
Attachment does not help me to move forward in the changes, when everything around me changes, I must also do it, I can not cling to the past, neither to things, nor to people, because I will be anchored, clinging to the pain of loss.
Appreciate what you already have
We must teach our mind to focus more on what it already has than what it lacks, because we do not run the risk of becoming the eternal dissatisfied. Because I’m going to tell you a secret: there will always be something missing.
“If you are not happy with what you have, you will hardly be with what you lack!”
Emotional detachment – exercise
To help you do this, there is an exercise that I often use in therapy, that of acknowledgments: for two weeks, every day before you go to sleep, thank life for three things you have and do not repeat one in those 15 days. You will discover the amount of things you already have and that you never value. Feeling thankful for what I have brings me closer to happiness than feeling just yearning for what I have not yet.
Saturday, December 15, 2018
Chelen
Chelon - This is the concept of human actions that grow the soul. soul growth experiences, which every human should have a right to experience and grow by performing them. That is where performing them for a human (thus disallowing them to perform them) is a breach of the right, such as bringing themn into a world and doing everything for them so their spirit grows fat and lazy. The pragmatism of the action rests in the ability of the action to grow the soul, so chelon means this. This is such as actions that humans have done for thousands of years in pursuit of survival - the walking in harsh conditions, procuring food and shelter, actions that prove to the self the self worth and so cause the spirit to swell. That is when forbidding these actions or making them unnecessary will stunt the spirit and make it sickly, so even if the pragmatic action is performed for the person i.e they are given nice food and shelter.
The spirit of the person will still suffer as the action was not performed or deserved by them - this is the feeling, but it is the lack caused by not performing the action so no soul growth occurs. See chelon are acts of self-sufficiency and courage, that are success in face of adversity or conflict. This is where overcoming or enduring conflict in this manner will bring health to the spirit, that is where some people would prevent the person. This is thinking that they are doing a good thing for them by doing so. So without performing chelon the spirit becomes timid and afraid and restless, this is done as it cannot assess its own strength. Then it will under and overestimate it, that means this is becoming unstable as there is no gauge of their actions. So in people that are in apathy or depression due to soul illness or other physical illness, encourage them to perform small acts in the manner of chelon as an effort to restore the spirit. That is possible to help even if these seem inconsequential, this is seen as they can build to larger actions.
by yemeni
The spirit of the person will still suffer as the action was not performed or deserved by them - this is the feeling, but it is the lack caused by not performing the action so no soul growth occurs. See chelon are acts of self-sufficiency and courage, that are success in face of adversity or conflict. This is where overcoming or enduring conflict in this manner will bring health to the spirit, that is where some people would prevent the person. This is thinking that they are doing a good thing for them by doing so. So without performing chelon the spirit becomes timid and afraid and restless, this is done as it cannot assess its own strength. Then it will under and overestimate it, that means this is becoming unstable as there is no gauge of their actions. So in people that are in apathy or depression due to soul illness or other physical illness, encourage them to perform small acts in the manner of chelon as an effort to restore the spirit. That is possible to help even if these seem inconsequential, this is seen as they can build to larger actions.
by yemeni
relationships
| This came from Oranum.com Would you like to improve your relationship? Here are 3 simple tricks for you: |
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| 1) New questionsDo you really think that the good old "How was your day?" question is the only thing you can ask from your partner? Hopefully you don't think that but still it is easy to just follow the habits. Be more curious and ask anything that comes to your mind. 2) Monthly date nightSimple as it is... Just, - naturally within certain borders - make sure you keep your preset dates no matter what comes to ruin it. If you even would like to spice it up do things together you have never done before. 3) Clarify the small things too It is very important to anticipate and recognize those little misunderstandings that later on could easily become real issues in the relationship. Remember the fact that couples who strive to avoid any conflicts will end up actually having tons of them. Many current issues could have been dealt with much earlier in the relationship if you paid more attention to this. |
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